prayer request

We have a friend who is currently having some marriage problems. The more I learn about some of the normal customs of Tanzanian marriage the angrier I am. Angry because Satan has taken something beautiful and turned it into something ugly. I suppose in some cases the same could be said for marriage in America. At any rate, Carson and I are pretty uncertain of what if anything we can do to help. If our friend does what culture dictates and EVERYONE is advising the marriage will end. Did I mention they have a newborn. I'm not really sure, but Postpartum Depression could be a factor. Please pray that God will bring peace and healing to this couple and that we will have the wisdom to help if possible.